There’s a huge difference between discussing identity and the personal journey that goes along with that, and discussing outwardly sexual things. I have known since age 8 that I am bisexual (though didn’t have a word for it), and having someone young that I could relate to would have saved me over a decade of self hatred and inner turmoil. Would you say the same if Jojo were, for example, asexual? Trans? Nonbinary? If you equate these stories with explicit sexual discussion, that’s on you.